This is more what I was thinking by "happy". What are you waiting for? Two people who are happy with what they have accomplished and happy where their life is, when they get together, they will grow together and having been off to a great start already can only be a benefit. When I was avoiding intimacy at all costs I looked for perfection. I believe in the power of positive thinking - even though it sounds hokey! Someone awesome stumbled into my life and now I'm dating them. Meaning even if I gave up the most amazing part of my life being a mom , even if I tried my whole life just to get well with myself, it was my relationships that helped me learn how to be well, and test out everything I was learning in therapy. In fact I would be weary of the person who insists their life is perfect and they would never need or want to change.
Both of you benefit from this relationship. But most of the time I'm good with where I am in my life. Though I run this site, it is not mine.
- Massage erotic
- Pole Dancing
- Smoking (Fetish)